[endtheword]

Hey folks - wanted to give you more information on the campaign I'm working for with Special Olympics.

We're trying to get as many people as we can to pledge to stop using the r-word (or "retard") across the globe, to make them stop and think about their hurtful use of the word and promote the acceptance and inclusion of people with intellectual disabilities.

We've already gotten hundreds of schools to participate, and gotten almost 45,000 people to make their pledges at http://www.r-word.org.

Here's an article on CNN.com about the campaign - what do you guys think?  Any stories to share?

[magily]

I personally think that the use of the word retard or retarded is much more commonly used in Canada and the States rather than Britain. I find that people use the phrase "that's so retarded" with no regard as to what it really means and how insulting it is. I have 4 kids and they all know that the word retard is not tolerated at my house, as I have explained that it is insulting to their brother. One good thing though  does seem to be used by older generations rather than young kids from what I hear.

[endtheword]

I personally think that the use of the word retard or retarded is much more commonly used in Canada and the States rather than Britain. I find that people use the phrase "that's so retarded" with no regard as to what it really means and how insulting it is. I have 4 kids and they all know that the word retard is not tolerated at my house, as I have explained that it is insulting to their brother. One good thing though  does seem to be used by older generations rather than young kids from what I hear.

Yes, we still hear a lot of it in the States, particularly in schools - which is why Special Olympics wants to try to get people to stop using the word.  It's contributing to bullying in schools and helping ostracize children with intellectual disabilities in schools, who deserve every chance to learn and feel comfortable in school as everyone else.

The word is widespread here - I have many friends who toss it around regularly in an inappropriate context to mean "stupid" or "dumb".  I correct them now.  You never know who is listening.

[paula]

I agree. It is a terrible word to use, but I never hear anyone use it in deepest darkest Dorset!

[Claire]

Since my brother married an American girl, I've heard them both using it. I said it was akin to using the word "nigger" and they haven't used it since.

I do however occasionally hear "spaz" and "mong"  or "monged out" used by young people. I don't like these either, but I don't think they even realise where "mong" comes from.  I do try to discourage their use.